Don’t Look Down, Keep Moving Forward

For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return.

– Leonardo da Vinci

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Why Torture Yourself on Social Media Debating Race, Gender, And Religion?

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Why torture yourself on social media debating  race, gender and religion? Within these social hot beds where grenades are flying and people are lurking from every nook and cranny on the web, be warned. If you hit the send button, you will become a target, likely, get attacked and left with scars.

Why? Everyones declaring war, insisting their opinion is right and demanding to be heard. Social platforms are raging with haters trolling for lone rebels to verbally devour by spewing words of hatred. Why are people so inflamed, divided? 

Race, Gender, and Religion carry many labels, beliefs, and opinions that run deep with each of us. It’s okay, we’re human, imperfect, a work in progress trying to be a better version of ourselves than we were yesterday.

Controversial topics on social media are trigger points, dark alleyways for angry, frustrated, disappointed individuals to vent and release strong emotions. I read comments on FB last week that made me happy, sad, mad and concerned. Even checking a few times to verify If I was actually friends with such persons who were capable of writing such horrible, mean things, especially about Christians or if they were a random visitor from my FB page. Yes, seriously, this is true. I, too, like many of you, have strong opinions about the sensitive subjects of race, gender and religion. In particular concerning Christians, who seemed to be under attack by the whole world. But with self-control in hand, I moved on and realized only elections can speak louder than the most popular FB post on the web.

As far as I can tell, the only power to affect change, (besides God) comes from the officials elected by the people. I finally came to this conclusion after making peace with the fact, that I can’t change anything except myself. So why let it steal my peace? No point in blowing up your blood pressure and torturing yourself over small stuff that won’t matter tomorrow.

What can you do when you feel helpless or lose hope??

  • Try visiting platforms on the web where your words can make a difference or convert your thoughts into action as a lobbyist. Here’s a thought – start a blog about your cause.
  • Submit letters to state legislatures or the powers at be.
  • Write articles to magazines interested in your feedback.
  • Take a deep breath, and be grateful for the freedom to make your own choices.

Other than getting to the polls to vote for the candidates who support your views – stay positive:)  and keep looking for happy spots to visit online.

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Happy trails
Donna George

Facebook Page To Help Oak Island, N.C. Shark Attack Victim Kiersten Yow 

 Like her page, send a note or donate! 

Meet Kiersten Yow, the courageous NC girl who survived the shark attack I posted earlier this week – great news, she is sharing a big smile on news clip, what a trooper!

Local news (WECT) catches up with Kiersten Yow –

12-year-old shark bite victim keeps positive

CHAPEL HILL, NC (WECT) – Kiersten Yow’s life was forever changed after being bitten by a shark in waist deep water in Oak Island on June 14, but that hasn’t kept the 12-year-old down.
Days after the terrifying ordeal, Kiersten’s family created a support page on Facebook, and people from around the country have been showing their support and admiration for this brave young girl.
Kiersten’s parents have been updating the page with her latest condition and progress. On Sunday, exactly one week after the incident, Kiersten walked the halls of the hospital for the first time!
The family updated the support facebook page Tuesday night to say Kiersten will be having surgery Wednesday on both her arm and leg.
When Kiersten isn’t going through therapy, she’s still able to enjoy things any preteen would – like playing the Wii, challenging others in board games, watching TV and playing on her iPod.
Kiersten’s parents say she is keeping a positive attitude, isn’t questioning why this happened to her, and thinking about accomplishing the next task. They are amazed with her progress, which she usually follows with the famous words, “Hey mom, look at me!”
Mobile users can view photos of Kiersten’s recovery here.
If you would like to send Kiersten a card or package, she can receive items at:
Kiersten Yow Support

PO Box 4555

Chapel Hill, NC 27515-4555
Copyright 2015 WECT. All rights reserved.

Get well wishes and prayers going your way Kiersten!

Happy trails
Donna George

Will The Fear Of Recent Shark Attacks At Oak Island, N.C., Keep You On The Shore?

Will The Fear Of Recent Shark Attacks At Oak Island, N.C., Keep You On The Shore…

Why did a shark attack 2 swimmers at my hometown beach, Oak Island, N.C.? Unless someone has been living under a rock or living outside of the US, you’ve most likely heard snippets of the tragic events that occurred Sunday. How does an otherwise normal, ordinary fun, sunny day at the beach turn to sheer terror in water? 

Like something straight from the movies, surreal, but very real. Two separate shark attacks on the same beach, two miles apart in waist deep water! How does this happen?

Thank God, Charlotte paramedic, Marie Hildreth, was at the right place, at the right time to save a life. She saw the attack and wasted no time making a tourniquet, even using the strings from a boogie board until EMS arrived on the scene.  

UPDATE 

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Charlotte Paramedic, Marie Hildreth, photo courtesy Fox News

The courageous victims were airlifted to New Hanover Regional Medical Center Hospital in Wilmington in critical condition. The first victim attacked was thirteen year old North Carolina girl, Kiersten Yow. On Monday she was transferred to N.C. Children’s Hospital at UNC where, she remains in stable condition. Her arm was amputated at the elbow, and she has suffered significant tissue damage to her leg, but with surgeries and rehabilitations, her doctors expect her to keep her leg.

Around 90 minutes later, the second shark attack happens in close proximity, about 2 miles up the beach from the first attack. Sixteen year old Hunter Treschel, from Colorado Springs was released from the hospital Wednesday to return to his home in Colorado. Although Hunter lost his arm below the shoulder, he is positive and in good spirits posting five Facebook videos about the attack from his hospital room

I am grateful Hunter and Kiersten are both recovering.

Shark experts’ studies point to the rise of shark sightings off the The Atlantic Coast due to a growing population of sharks. In 1997 a conservative law measure became effective that tempers and prevents great white shark hunting. In my humble unscientific opinion, maybe it’s time to reform or update that law.

Other shark authorities claim increased fishing activity off the piers attract the beasts. The Oak Island officials have now banned all shark fishing from the pier. Call me crazy, but why was shark fishing ever allowed, considering surfers and swimmers are always in the ocean near the piers. My favorite spot to swim was always near this pier – at this very same pier. Yes, this is my hometown beach, where I learned to surf a little, swim a lot, work a waterslide park and lifeguard. Never have I felt fear at this familiar beach.

Oak Island Beach, NC

Oak Island Beach, NC

Will you return to the sea as normal or retreat to the hot, balmy shoreline? The ocean is a treasure that we share with the sea life. They have their place and we have ours. We can co-exist together, sharing the same sea.

                         A Few Tips I Learned In Life Guard Training – Safety Tips 

  • Don’t wear shiny jewelry in the ocean (big no-no) and opt for dark color swimwear and (avoid yellow). Sharks see in shades of black and white not color, but use contrast to distinguish objects of interest.
  • Swim in locations where authorities are watching and patrolling for life safety and emergencies.
  • Stay in waters with groups of other people, high activity usually defers attacks. There is more safety in numbers.
  • Stay out of the ocean after a heavy rainfall or storm. Bait fish get stirred up and sharks go after them to feed.
  • Don’t swim near drop-offs points to deeper waters, like a river mouth. Sharks inhabit these kinds of areas.
  • The basic rule of thumb (I always follow) – don’t swim at dawn, dusk or night.
  • Leave the water quickly, but calmly if you start to see large schools, jump out of the water or start to behave erratically or strange. It is usually because they sense a predatory shark.
  • When swimming in deep water (which I love), try to swim with smooth moves. Don’t splash a lot and bring attention to yourself in the water.
  • The danger heightens when you swim in deep waters, where we enjoy skiing, swimming and many other water activities, however the chances increase for a shark encounter.
  • If a shark should begin to approach you, (if you don’t have a heart attack first), be ready to defend yourself! If contact occurs, keep your sight on the shark, and try gouging his eyes out with your fingers and bang on its nose. Fight!

Fear is a strong emotion, but Love is even stronger. The lifestyle of ocean lovers centers around the beach and the water. I hope you will continue to embrace what you love while exercising a little wisdom. There are risks in everything in life. What will you do, stay on the shore or jump back in the water? Love it or leave it? 

Tomorrow is the first official day of summer, Enjoy the Summer! 

And Happy Father’s Day 🙂 

Happy trails,
Donna George

Girl, Put Your Record On, Tell Me Your Favorite Song

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Jukebox music of yesteryears

Heard this tune before? Girl, put your record on, tell me your favorite song. 

Three little birds, sat on my window.
And they told me I don’t need to worry.
Summer came like cinnamon
So sweet,
Little girls double-dutch on the concrete.

Maybe sometimes, we’ve got it wrong, but it’s alright
The more things seem to change, the more they stay the same
Oh, don’t you hesitate.

Girl, put your records on, tell me your favorite song
You go ahead, let your hair down
Sapphire and faded jeans, I hope you get your dreams,
Just go ahead, let your hair down.

You’re gonna find yourself somewhere, somehow.

Blue as the sky, sunburnt and lonely,
Sipping tea in the bar by the roadside,
(Just relax, just relax)
Don’t you let those other boys fool you,
Got to love that afro hair do.

Maybe sometimes, we feel afraid, but it’s alright
The more you stay the same, the more they seem to change.
Don’t you think it’s strange?

Girl, put your records on, tell me your favorite song
You go ahead, let your hair down
Sapphire and faded jeans, I hope you get your dreams,
Just go ahead, let your hair down.

You’re gonna find yourself somewhere, somehow.

‘Twas more than I could take, pity for pity’s sake
Some nights kept me awake, I thought that I was stronger
When you gonna realize, that you don’t even have to try any longer?
Do what you want to.

Girl, put your records on, tell me your favorite song
You go ahead, let your hair down
Sapphire and faded jeans, I hope you get your dreams,
Just go ahead, let your hair down.

Girl, put your records on, tell me your favorite song
You go ahead, let your hair down
Sapphire and faded jeans, I hope you get your dreams,
Just go ahead, let your hair down.

Some days are made for songs like these. What record do you play to let your hair down?

Happy Trails
Donna

photo credit, purple clover

Can You Pick A Favorite From The 1000 Piece Puzzle Gallery?

Can you pick a favorite from the 1000 piece puzzle gallery? My puzzle friends have requested a puzzle gallery, and finally here it is. If you missed the post, How To Turn A 1000 Piece Puzzle Into A Masterpiece, take a peek.

Junkers Puzzle

Old Junkers, 1000 Piece Puzzle

99 Places In The World To See, 1000 Piece Puzzle

99 Places In The World To See, 1000 Piece Puzzle

Crazy Balls Puzzle

Crazy Balls, 1000 Piece Puzzle

Dogs, 1000 Piece Puzzle

All About The Dogs, 1000 Piece Puzzle

Vintage Old Store

Vintage Old Store

America, 1000 Piece Puzzle

America, 1000 Piece Puzzle

Walt Disney World Puzzle

Walt Disney World, 1000 Piece Puzzle

The Cross, 1000 Piece Puzzle

The Cross, 1000 Piece Puzzle

Old Baldy Lighthouse 1000 Piece Puzzle

Old Baldy Lighthouse, 1000 Piece Puzzle – Bald Head Island, NC

It’s always the small pieces that make the big picture

Puzzling is what I call, making order out of chaos. Whether you consider puzzling a time-waster or a sanity saver, it’s a hobby with devoted fans. No matter what category you enjoy building, the options are endless.  Remember, you will be looking at the pieces time and time again so it’s important to choose something you like.

Did you see a puzzle you liked? Can you pick a favorite from the 1000 Piece Puzzle Gallery? If not, find one you like and get busy. Don’t forget to send me a photo.

Happy trails
Donna George

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Unique New Purposes For Beautiful Old Barns

Scattered across America, unique new purposes for beautiful old barns are being pitched, marketed and saved.

Old barn Ashe County, N.C.

Big working barn on Blue Ridge Parkway, Ashe County, N.C.

Amish inspired white barn, Ashe County, N.C.

Amish inspired white barn, Ashe County, N.C.

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Old white barn, Blue Ridge Parkway, N.C.

Inside old barn

Inside of an old barn

As the number of traditional farmers decreases, many barns are left empty and abandoned. According to the American Farmland Trust, over 72 million acres have been lost since 1982 and the trend is growing fast. These barns are easier to spot on country roads, roads less traveled or on the mountainside.

Thanks to resourceful ideators, the revival of these old barns is on the rise.

Old barn with American flag

Old barn with American flag

As the farming industry changes, so does the need to reinvent the barns. These faded glory iconic structures are being modified to produce cheese and grow vegetables like mushrooms, spinach, lettuce and micro greens. And organic farmers are hopping on the trend with barley, hay, wheat and blue corn.

It’s not just the food farmers redefining the use of old barns, but other industries like wine, animal shelters, and flower shops are quickly starting to emerge.

Barn weddings are taking place all over the country, offering the bride and groom more options to use a personal location. The casual wedding setting has been embraced by every generation, young and old. Wedding planners create a country rustic chic, by combining romantic outdoorsy beautiful details.

Barn wedding

Beautiful wedding table seating

Barn wedding

Country sophistication barn wedding

Celebrities such as Blake Shelton and Miranda Lambert, has greatly impacted wedding everywhere, not just country music fans. The old antique trucks, rope lighting and stuffing notes in mason jars have become mainstream at these weddings.

The hope is to save the old barns by continuing to explore new purposes for them. Have you given any thought to the old broken hillside barns you’ve seen recently? Maybe it was just a glimpse from the corner of your eye. Perhaps you’ve attended a barn wedding and considering planning your own event in a barn?

The ideas are endless. Do you have any?

Happy trails
Donna George

Blooming Azaleas Make Greenfield Lake Beautiful

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Every year blooming azaleas make Greenfield Lake beautiful place to visit in Wilmington NC. Lilac Wisteria and colorful Azaleas in red, white and pinks, set the mood for a perfect day in the park. Scattered throughout the park are gorgeous, stunning trees draped with moss and vines.

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Visit the Hugh Morton Amphitheater  for a full schedule of concerts and outdoor events for the spring and summer headliners.

If you aren’t interested in one of the events, the 5 mile running path in the scenic view might interest you. The bridges are lovely and the views are spectacular. Or why not try out a paddle boat and cruise around the lake for some old fashion fun.

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The Park is conveniently located just minutes from Downtown Wilmington – A must see destination. Take an afternoon stroll, plan a picnic or head out for one of the events. And don’t forget your camera! It’s…

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Sunday pleasures: bacon, mushroom and spinach quiche

This looks so delicious!

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quicheI feel like it’s been ages since I put a recipe on here so I really wanted to share with you my lunch today! I made a very quick and easy quiche that takes about 15mins to prepare and 35mins in the oven. Ideal for a lazy Sunday eh?

Now I know that homemade pastry is preferable but I had the ready made ones and sometimes they are just more practical!

Ingredients:

  • pie pastry (I got mine from Waitrose)
  • 3 eggs
  • 100g of unsmoked lean bacon (cut in tiny cubes)
  • 1/2 cup of chopped mushrooms
  • just under 100g of spinach
  • 1/4 teaspoon of nutmeg
  • 1 cup of milk
  • a pinch of salt
  • grated cheddar cheese to taste

Directions:

  • Cook bacon in medium heat until slightly cooked
  • On a separate pan, place the mushrooms and cook until all liquid has been evaporated
  • Grease a tray with butter and place the pie…

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